For his book, "Fitness is Religion", Ray
Kybartis enlisted the help of one very special individual to do his
introduction for him, and that would be our dynamic diva, Madonna! Read
this fascinating excerpt on why Madonna got so into fitness, what
motivated her, and what made her enjoy it so much! Straight from Madonna,
here is the down-low ;).
"The first time I met Ray I was in
Tennessee
visiting my future husband who is now my ex-husband on the set of his
movie “At Close Range.” I think I was getting on Sean’s nerves
(there’s not a lot to do on the set of a movie even if you’re in it),
and he suggested I go for a run with the trainer he had hired to make him
look like a hunk in the film. Ray showed up at my hotel as I was lacing my
sneakers.
I don’t know how we ended up on the dirt road that went on for miles. We
could have driven there in his truck. We could have walked. Maybe we flew.
The thing is, as soon as Ray showed up, I forgot that I was about to do
something difficult. After all it was the middle of summer and 90 degrees
in the shade.
First of all he was so damn cheerful. Second of all he was tan and fit and
absolutely radiated good health. And last but certainly not least he was
so innocent. About everything. Women, money, the entertainment business. I
could go on and on. He didn’t even swear. In the beginning I used to try
and bribe him with money to say a teeny tiny four letter word. But he
would just blush. He was so adorable. I couldn’t believe he was from
L.A.
We talked about women- he needed to have more confidence. We talked about
money – I told him to ask for more. We talked about the entertainment
business – no free rides, never trust anyone, watch your back, etc.,
etc. I was feeling very experienced and jaded.
Then he picked up the pace. I had to work hard to keep up with him, and I
was definitely sucking air, but he made me laugh so hard with his silly
anecdotes that I didn’t realize I was suffering. We finished the run,
and I felt invigorated. That’s when I first realized that it was
possible to exercise and enjoy myself.
Ray and I worked out a few more times, and I went back on the road to
finish a tour. Eventually I returned to
L.A.
and decided I wanted to get a trainer full time. I tried several, but none
of them made the impact that Ray had. None of them made me laugh. None of
them motivated me the way Ray did. I picked up the phone, dialed his
number, and I’ve been training with him ever since.
Some days we run forever. Some days we ride bikes. Some days we swim and
run stairs. Some days we do weight training. Some days we have a pancake
breakfast, and lately we’ve been doing lots of yoga. He makes working
out fun and encourages me to rest when I’m burned out. The important
thing is variety and adapting it t my lifestyle.
There are no rules. All you need is dedication. That’s where the whole
church thing came into our fitness vocabulary. I don’t know who started
it, me or Ray, but we were in
Indiana
filming “A League of Their Own.” Once again it was the middle of
summer, and I had to look like I played baseball for a living.
We were training like maniacs. Filming started at 8 a.m., so we had to get
up at 5 to get a workout in. It would still be dark out. The phone would
ring, and I’d hear Ray’s voice cackling like a witch at the other end
of the line, “Evilsky, are you ready for church?” You have to imagine
Boris Karloff after too many cups of coffee to get the full effect.
Sometimes it was so dark we’d run into telephone poles or trip on fresh
roadkill. We’d make ourselves feel better by exclaiming that nobody else
had “the religion.”
There were lots of other movie sets and concert tours that we’ve been
together on, and I give Ray a lot of credit for keeping my spirits up and
injecting levity into working situations that inevitably became grueling
experiences. I will always be indebted to him for keeping me in good shape
and teaching me about proper nutrition, but more important, for keeping my
head in a good place. Whether we’re doing windsprints uphill or sun
salutes in my living room, the goal has been much more about peace of mind
than having a perfect body.
Physical beauty is ephemeral, but the self-confidence and emotional
strength one builds from achieving difficult things and accomplishing
goals is the most beautiful thing of all.
The important thing is to have fun while you’re doing it. To enjoy the
journey. That’s what life’s all about."
-Madonna
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